How to Make the Most of a College Visit

It might also help to talk to an alumnus before your visit. If you don't know anyone personally, ask the school for the names of alumni in your area. Ask them what they recommend you see and do during your visit.

While on campus, get a taste of student life. Eat lunch in the cafeteria, read the school's newspaper and stop by student hangouts (such as the bookstore or coffee shop.)

Also, stop by the bulletin boards in the dormitory, library and cafeteria. This will give you a glimpse of what happens on campus — plays, lectures, parties, sporting events, etc. talk to as many students as you can while you're visiting. (If you feel uncomfortable starting a conversation, asking for directions is a good ice breaker.)

Finally, take notes during your visit. After your second or third campus visit, the details will start to blur together. Keeping notes on your reactions and feelings during and right after your visit will help keep things straight when it's time to make your decisions. And, as your mom always tells you, follow up by sending everyone you spoke with a "thank-you" note.

Now that your child or grandchild has found their college of choice, let's take a look at how you're going to pay for it!

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