November 4, 2009 5:43 PM

I have so many problems with this,I married in 1994 for the 4th time, we were married 4 years when he was diagnosed as terminal with cancer. He lived until 1999. I was 57 when he passed away, therefore, I am drawing his social security and started at age 60 as I was a widow. I was married before him and this man has now started drawing at age 62 and is remarried to his exwife. I am not getting enough to live on but was wondering that since he and I were married almost 18 years and have been divorced about 17 years, can I draw any larger amount from him?? I can see that you have researched all of this and there seem to be a lot of problems with what and from who you can draw off of. I have been struggling to make it for over 10 years, any help would be appreciated.

Thank you,

Mary Clark