May 25, 2010 9:25 PM updated: May 25, 2010 9:44 PM

I am very leery of putting retirement, home, and finances at risk to send a young adult to college, if there hasn't been any or much saving while the child was growing up. I think the young adult needs to find ways to pay for his or her college and if the parents can help through some cash -outside of the home and retirement area-that would be safer.